Generosity.
Generosity is
the ability to anticipate a need and the courage to meet it.
Like many
pastors in the United Methodist Church I am in a season of transition. I have
said goodbye to a wonderful and generous congregation and I am looking forward
to saying hello to the next. Any
anxiety about the transition was eased as I experienced another great
outpouring of love and generosity from the new congregation. Each day as boxes surround us there is
a knock on the door with a friendly face bringing us a meal. It is a simple yet powerful act of generosity. We look around our world and so often
see and focus on the harm we cause to one another. What if we found the good and focused on the healing and
help that we can also bring to one another? How can we be more generous?
First, it is
important to remember that this is a gift from God and that certain people
excel in it more than others. In
the movie Good Will Hunting, the main
character uses a great metaphor to explain his uncanny natural ability to
understand organic chemistry. He
is able to “just play”. When
Mozart or Beethoven saw a piano they were able to just play while others may
see a box with a bunch of keys. I
think that when it comes to generosity, some are able to just play more than
others.
Generosity is
the ability to anticipate the need … To be more generous –
1.
You
have to see the need.
It never fails
that when I am trying to find something it’s been under my nose the whole
time. Sometimes we just don’t see
very clearly. We see as dimly in a
mirror (1 Cor. 13:12), things are foggy and we just can’t see it. However, our ability to see has been tampered
with because we have closed our eyes to the need. I admit that I change the channel whenever I see the ‘Feed
the Children’ or ‘ASPCA’ commercials.
Images of others hurting changes us and affects us in ways that we don’t
always enjoy. Open your eyes to
the needs of those around you.
2.
You
have to anticipate the need.
If you are
willing to see then you can live an anticipatory life of generosity. This is different than just hearing
about a need and helping. This is
a type of generosity that anticipates the need. You are always looking and ready to move when needed. It’s like a great baseball outfielder
who anticipates where the ball is going to be based upon pitch count or even
the sound of the bat. This type of
generosity can also be described in the ‘radical’ part of hospitality that we
United Methodists like to talk about so much. Hospitality or generosity is one level, anticipatory
generosity or radical hospitality is another. Don’t wait for the need, anticipate it and move.
Generosity is …
the courage to meet it. To
be more generous –
1.
You
need courage to act.
There are those
who are able to see and even anticipate, yet fail to be generous. Good
intentions are not enough in this world. Courage is needed in a world that
craves generosity. People actually
want to be caring and kind, they are just afraid. We are afraid of exposing too much of ourselves, or enabling
one’s behavior and creating dependency.
We have come up with all sorts of phrases to keep us kind yet not very
generous. True generosity means
extending yourself to a place of the unknown or even fearful. To do something that is so beyond your
capacity and frame of reference puts you into the Realm of the King. This is Kingdom work, here folks. We get to see moments of God’s Kingdom
here and now when this happens.
All it takes is a few seconds of courage. Muster it up and be truly generous. Then – enjoy the ride.
2.
Spend
time with people who are generous.
I used to think
I was generous until I spent time with actual generous people. You know what happened – my stinginess
didn’t change them, but, in fact, they rubbed off on me. Their warmth, love, and natural care
inspired me to be a person who looks and tries to see now. I start to think with their mind rather
than my first reaction. If there
is something that I am afraid to do, I think about how they would react in this
situation. Sure, it makes me
uncomfortable at times, but I also get to experience moments of courage and
generosity.
In the end –
what is the real cost of generosity?
John Maxwell said, ‘Be a river, not a reservoir.’
See it.
Anticipate it.
Have the courage
to act.
Be generous
today.
